Lives Slip Silently By
Lives slip silently by.
Who knows what’s
Behind that hollow eye,
In dark recesses
Lie past successes.
Gray heads bent
Troubles for a time lent.
We can’t see them now
Under that vacant brow.
A sketchy obituary
Read in the paper
Tells some of the story,
But then it’s late to know.
We can’t reach in.
Sometimes we can’t begin.
No one around to start the story
And we find out too late
The story trapped
Behind a precious one’s fate.
I attended a memorial this morning. The pastor expressed regret that he only found out the deceased liked model trains. The pastor has a collection and would have enjoyed talking about model trains. The conversations never led to model trains. It reminded me of this poem I wrote when I worked in a skilled nursing facility. How often, though at these memorials, do we wonder at how we may have connected with the ones passed on?
“As Death stalks our hallways again, I wonder at the lives we touch.” I wrote that line when I re-posted this poem.
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