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When is Making a Choice Not a Mistake?

You are taking a test and you make a mistake by selecting the incorrect answer; your poor judgement of not studying for the test is a choice. 

The mistake was something you did unintentionally, whereas the poor choice was something you made on purpose, most of the time without giving any thought to the possible repercussions.

It’s simple to justify your poor choices by saying they were just mistakes instead of conscious decisions. It lessens the severity of the impact, which in turn makes it easier to bear.

However, this is only the beginning of the problem; if you reframe a poor choice as a mistake, you absolve yourself of responsibility for the outcome. This way, you can see it as no longer your fault.

It is also a lot simpler to accept the consequences of your poor choices if they were not your fault. 

Consequently, if you just consider it a mistake, you are more likely to make the same poor decision repeatedly. This is because it is easier to rationalize bad choices.

We all make mistakes. We are also all guilty of making poor choices. They are a natural and inevitable element of being human.

Mistakes are often the path to success, and we can learn from our poor choices, but let’s not mix the two.

The following are some instances of common mistakes:

You thought you were adding salt when you actually just added sugar to your vegetables. This is a mistake.

You failed to remember to charge your tablet, and the battery is now completely dead, so you are unable to read your book or play your favorite game. This is a mistake.

The following are some examples of choice:

Despite the fact that you are aware that you should, you do not exercise at the gym. You have a choice here.

You grab something to eat at a fast food restaurant despite the fact that you are aware that this is not the healthiest option. You have a choice here.

There Is a Distinction Between Making a Choice and Making a Mistake

Your awareness and intention are the two most important factors in this whole process. To begin, because we are all human, we are susceptible to making mistakes. Some of them are significant missteps, while others are merely minor setbacks.

The old adage that “there are no mistakes, only lessons” is important to remember. This is significant because we are able to progress in life when we acknowledge our shortcomings and gain wisdom from them.

Another critical step to take is to recognize that you have the ability to change both yourself and the results that you are now getting in your life.

You have the ability to make amends for your mistake, even though doing so is not always simple, particularly when faced with a difficult circumstance.

When it comes to responsibility, placing blame on others or coming up with excuses is really just an exercise in living in denial.

What is the Difference Between a Mistake and a Choice?

The difference between a mistake and a choice is that the latter requires making a conscious decision. The difference that really matters is in your intentions.

It is a choice to act in a way that you are fully mindful of, especially when you are aware that your actions may do harm to other people.

When you drink alcohol and then get behind the wheel of your car, you are making a very poor choice. That is not a mistake on your part.

You were aware that you had consumed too much alcohol, but you still made the choice to get into the car any way.

It is possible that you did something that ended up hurting someone else, even though that was not your intention. In that case, what you did could be considered a mistake. On the other hand, you are making a choice if you choose not to accept responsibility and clean up the mess that you produced.

There are Consequences for Your Actions!

The decisions we make, whether they’re good or bad, always have consequences. They may be unintended, but there will still be consequences.

For example, after a night of drinking, you decide to get in your car and drive. It is possible that the police will pull you over, that you will not pass the breathalyzer test, and that the police will then arrest you.

Not only have you put yourself and other people at risk, but you now face the possibility of spending time in jail, having to appear before a judge, paying a fine, having your driver’s license revoked, or all of the above.

If, on the other hand, you added sugar to your vegetables instead of salt, the result would be that you spoiled the food. There would be a financial cost, and you would need to make your meal all over again.

Yes, We All Make Mistakes!

Each and every one of us is capable of making mistakes and terrible choices. 

It is possible for us to make poor choices in important areas of our lives, such as choosing the wrong person to spend our lives with, being cruel to others when we are upset, or forgetting to lock the door to our home when we leave.

The silver lining is that we can improve ourselves by gaining wisdom from our mistakes and bad choices. If we choose to ignore the lesson, then it is our choice.

When we get older, we have the ability to learn how to take responsibility for our actions and make wiser choices. On the other hand, we cannot eliminate the possibility of making mistakes. We certainly don’t want to keep making the same mistakes over and over again.

It may be beneficial to make a distinction between actions that are mistakes and those that are choices. Hopefully, when we make a poor choice, we can come to terms with what we did and then resolve to never act in such a way again.

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